Join Date: Sep 2010
Location: Holland, Michigan
Re: Is Husband Just Being a Jerk or Am I Too Sensitive?
No, you're not being to "sensitive" you, have let your husband know how much his picking on you, gets to you. It is one thing for a loved one- or in laws at that to be joking around with you, and playing jokes but when someone is to keep on doing it, knowing that it is upsetting you, then yes, they are being a jerk in a half. Here is what to do though it- will, be hard on your cause seeing that you, fall for things very easy but, act like his jokes do not even bother you, and when you, do this I will give it a week if that- by you, just sitting there laughing about what he says (even if it hurts do this) and going in with his jokes he does or others do- joke with them. It will end real fast because then he and those others would know "hey this does not bother her anymore-" then it will end...
I am pretty much the same as you are- I use to always fall for things very easy-but then again, when things went to far I knew they were lies and the person was only joking around. When, people do look you into the face without laughing or anything yes, it is harder to tell if they are joking around, here is how you, can watch for those signs of something being untrue and as a joke
1. The person will have a voice that sounds so real
2. The person will make sure they can get you drawing into the story that they are telling you3. They will keep the story going on and on- to see how far they can take it
4. The last thing to watch for is- then smiling while telling the stories....
Watch for those signs- I am telling you- this is one of the comments you'll, want to listen too... For one I do have a gift and I am to tell things and what goes on... So, if you want to listen to what is being said here- you, can and if you do not choose too then you, won't but I am telling you- things will not end then...