blackeyedsusan37

I give up. (Please excuse the type errosr, I cant see for the tears in my eyes.) I made a mistake and have been busting my butt to fix things or eveen make them a little better. He doesnt stay at home anymore. He doesnt talk to me. He sayd he is so angry and cant just get over it ove night. I cant take it. My heart hurts and my soul is tired. Ia m working 2 jobs to fix what I broke and it is not good enough. All I do is cry and it still hurts. I cant breathe.
I never cheated on him. I have stopped shopping and spending. The other day, I was stupid and got caught in one of those online vacation shcemes. Igave them my credit card # and they charged it like 10 times in one hour when they werent suppose to charge it at all till August. I was only thyinking aboput doing something nice for my husband and take him to Florida during bike week. he ohnly sees it as lying and using his money for my good.
I cant fix this anymore. I am so at the end of my rope. Please someone give me some advise. What do I do? Give me some reason to keep fighting for this/working.
HELP

BlueCreek

What kind of credit card was this you don't have any sort of fraud protection or legal recourse? Sure you can be sucked in and held accountable for a purchase, but for them to charge early and 10x what you expected has got to be fraud.

827Aug

Please don't be so hard on yourself. Some scammers are so cleaver. Call your credit card company and calmly explain to customer service what happened. The credit card companies really do go after scams and fraud. It's in their best interest. Why is your husband so angry over this incident? Are there other things bothering him?

Hang in there and keep us posted.

blackeyedsusan37

He insists that I have been cheating on him, had the chance but did not nor did i want to. I have spent alot of money in the past and he told me to stop spending OR ELSE. Why cant he understand that I only tried to get that vacation for him. He still isnt home. He is at his friend's house "working on a roof". I am trying to decide if I should wait it out or just give up

827Aug

Don't give up. If you read some of my posts, you'll see that my life is a total mess (and not my fault); I haven't given up yet. I'm not sure what is going on with your husband. Something must be bothering him. I would try calling the credit card company and get the problem resolved. I would also work on controlling the spending no matter what the excuse. For now, be nice and friendly to your husband. Don't bring up anything that will lead to an argument. Just give him some space. At least this is what my new counselor is recommending that I do. Have you thought about counseling?