emeraldblue

Hi again guys--this is a new thread, last week i talked about being miserable with my husband because of his work schedule(56-60 hrs a week). Well, over the weekend, talk of the devil i ran into my x--the married one i was with for over 5 years---yep, things kicked up again--i think i need a shrink instead of the net but ill try anything once.....I guess its been our escape from reality......My husband works alot,we dont have extra money(can figure that one), he;s too tired half the time to do things in bed, since hes been living here he's done his laundry only, never ours, hasnt helped with housework(except things that annoy him), he does his laundry only, hasnt touched ours(yes ive mentioned it), i can go on and on, im just stressed and i know its an adjustment living together at first, i guess i was expecting to be really happy, to settle down, but that is not what im living with..............

ztc

I understand what you are talking about. My husband pretty has 4 jobs but we do have some extra money but he works pretty much 7 days a week. He also some how finds the time to help me around the house. I just wish that he could have the time for just the two of us. I talked to him and he told me that he wants to provide a good life for the two of us so we can start a family together soon. Have you tried to talk to you husband.

emeraldblue

yes, ive tried talking to him about all of these issues.....i do feel very badly about everything that is going on--he feels the same way, providing for us, but we are not married that long to have such a wedge between us.....good luck with your new to be spouse.