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Old 10-09-2010, 09:07 PM   #1 (permalink)
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My husband and I had a huge fight. He took off for a couple of days to cool off at a friends house. We then sat down and talked it out and he came home. since then hes been really depressed and moody. Hes trying to tell me that after being together for over 13 yrs doesnt matter, because he doesnt love me anymore. he says I shut him out and have for the last 9 yrs. a couple of days latter it was changed to 6 yrs. we have had a bit of bickering at home but while we are together during the day we dont bicker or argue. we were talking about remolding the house and planning things together. we would be intimate a lot, till this fight. I told him I am seeking counseling for me because I dont want to keep shutting him out, I also need to do it for me and our daughter. I have also tld him that I will fight for him, for not only us but for our daughter. I believe with every fiber of my being that he does love me and doesnt want to go. he threated to leave and quit his job and move 80 miles away to his parents. but yet hes still here. I dont know what to do. I am fighting for my marriage because up untill 5 days ago it was good, we had our flaws but I was working on seeking help for me. any advice?
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