Re: I am a police officer and not loyal
It's true that it's very difficult for cops to make time for their wives and girlfriends due to their unique lifestyle. When everybody's sleeping, they're working on their duties. When it's time for them to sleep, next hour, they might get a emergency call to get back to work. The lifestyle is pretty tough actually. It's very important for them to find a supportive woman who understands and accepts him at times he can't be there for her when she needs him. It's very important for them to find a true woman who honors his work. Unfortunately, many cops have relationship & marriage problems because their work requires 24 hours standing by for emergencies, and almost everyday, some crimes happen. It's a restless job. So their gfs and wives can often feel very lonely.
My husband and me had a chance to make cops friends and yes, most of them can only grasp love whenever they can. Of course they do wish for a stable and loving family but nowadays, it's getting more and more difficult to find a Miss Right for a cop. It's almost impossible for them to focus on the happiness of the women. So my idea would be, don't rush into marriage if you're not ready. When your Miss Right shows up, you know she's exactly your life girl, you want to marry her and you know you won't cheat on her. It's possible you not yet found that true woman so you're having some kind of confusions and hesitations.
Last edited by MsLonely; 10-21-2010 at 02:11 AM.