police007

I love my job but women are just easy for us officers to get. Everyone in my department cheats. It's just our nature like 007. I have a girlfriend who I have been with 6 years and we are supposed to get married in 3 months but I have cheated on her many times and she has no clue. Should I keep it a secret and marry her? I do love her but other women just turn me on for a 1 night.

Greentea

Why it's easy for police officers to get women? How come? Because you guys have guns? because you have authorities? That makes you guys more handsome and sexy? if that is the case, you guys are abusing the authority people give to you.

police007

I won't deny it what you are saying. It is very true. I do feel like that but I also love protecting society and arresting criminals but what you said is true and I just can't stop thinking like that. I don't know if it's a problem.

Idontknownow

I think your love is warped and cruel if you are not honest and inform your GF of your behavior and the fact you seem to have no intention of ever stopping.

misspuppy

well i do LOVE a man in uniform def a turn on for me ..

But seriously it depends on how you approach the situation with your lady. Is she the jealous type? is she understanding?

I am the kind of woman who is pretty open minded about relationships ( i have been married for almost 9 yrs now).. MY def of cheating is banging a chick WITHOUT my knowledge ( we are also swingers). That is my def of cheating, playing without me?

I am not trying to say what you are doing is right, but, trying to help you. What about involving her in your One nightstands? would that be something she is into?

IDK what you can do, you could tell her, or not, its up to you. Honesty sometimes is not the best thing in a relationship... im just sayin...

police007

She always complains that I work a lot and that I do a lot of hours. It does annoy me a lot. No one will just understand why we work a lot. I don't think I will find a women that will support me when I come from work.

Greentea

So, you guys get compensated in women for protecting society and arresting criminals?

My dream is to be a police officer here, but your post kind makes me feel a little bit ........don't know how to say.

police007

Not every officer is the same. Everyone has a different personality. Me I have some issues that needs to be solved in my life and if you want to serve and protect then go for it

misspuppy

I understand that is hard for you. You put in long hours, you protect and serve, you are there when there is trouble, you give your life for others, you DESERVE someone who can trust you to come home to every night with out getting the 2nd degree. I understand the sacrifice you make everyday, im not married to Police Officer, but, i grew up in a military family, and talk about dedication and commitment, ANY ONE in Law Enforcement, Military or Firemen IS capable of love.. look what you guys do!!!! for crying out loud.. put aside the pretty lady thing for a minute. give yourself credit for what you do for others.

You are:
Committed
Dedicated
Brave
Caring
Compassionate
Concerned
Loving
Loyal
Hard Working


the list can go on and on and on.. anyone would be off their rocker not to care for you, and so many others like you.. YES, it is hard because woman throw themselves at you. but so do so many other professions out there i wish you all the luck in the world that you find someone who loves you for you!!!!

Greentea

I decide I shouldn't have joked like that.

police007

If my gf said that to me I would have really stopped cheating and I am serious. I am ending this relationship. I want to be loyal and have a family one day. There is no point of 1 night stands when no one is supporting me. Thank you

F-102

Thank you for your service, cops just don't get the respect they deserve. But I think you need to seriously take stock of yourself and ask yourself, are you truly READY to be married?

Trenton

I look at this another way entirely.

What you are doing to your girlfriend shows very negative behaviors to the persons closest to you that you are about to swear to honor and cherish for life. If you can break that vow before you've even made it what kind of man are you really?

Do your soon to be wife a favor and get out or fess up. I think she does deserve to see the man she's marrying that perhaps hides behind adjectives that describe his uniform but not him. It is ignorance to believe that all those who take a call to service are automatically good.

MsLonely

It's true that it's very difficult for cops to make time for their wives and girlfriends due to their unique lifestyle. When everybody's sleeping, they're working on their duties. When it's time for them to sleep, next hour, they might get a emergency call to get back to work. The lifestyle is pretty tough actually. It's very important for them to find a supportive woman who understands and accepts him at times he can't be there for her when she needs him. It's very important for them to find a true woman who honors his work. Unfortunately, many cops have relationship & marriage problems because their work requires 24 hours standing by for emergencies, and almost everyday, some crimes happen. It's a restless job. So their gfs and wives can often feel very lonely.
My husband and me had a chance to make cops friends and yes, most of them can only grasp love whenever they can. Of course they do wish for a stable and loving family but nowadays, it's getting more and more difficult to find a Miss Right for a cop. It's almost impossible for them to focus on the happiness of the women. So my idea would be, don't rush into marriage if you're not ready. When your Miss Right shows up, you know she's exactly your life girl, you want to marry her and you know you won't cheat on her. It's possible you not yet found that true woman so you're having some kind of confusions and hesitations.

MsLonely

When you can't focus on the happiness of any woman. Find a woman who would focus on your happiness. She would screw your brains off everyday and you have no more sperm in stock for other women. LOL
just joking.
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