He Crossed Line..Husband Up and Left!!

dscowgirl · 07-22-2008, 04:10 PM

UPdate..He was moving animals off the property and he called and left me a voice mail saying for me not to be mad that his girl friend was with him and for me to be aware of it. HA! I stayed away from the house and went home later. He came back over after 10:30 (me and my kids were at home) wanting his stuff! SHE WAS IN THE TRUCK! How disrespectful!! He was already told anytime he was at the house he was to be by himself. I know if it was me who did this he would have gone irate and probably shot the guy. Me as a woman I am trying to be civil. We have a phone bill together and he still hasn't paid for it all. I am nervous about how he will react if I just turn it off. HE can get irate and I don't want it to get nasty. Any suggestions!!

dscowgirl · 07-22-2008, 04:12 PM

I need to maybe figure a way to kill the phone and have all his stuff ready in one fail swoop!!

dscowgirl · 07-29-2008, 10:57 AM

ok well I have calmed down from the initial anger of the situation. I have not called or texted my husband for over a week now. I want to keep it up and see if he calls me but then its so hard. Supposidly he won't be back till later this week or something. I decided to let his phone stay on and us try and work that issue out in a normal manner. I asked nicely for him to pay it yet he hasn't paid it yet. I only got a text that "k thanks..". Thru all he has put me through I as well feel I could possibly forgive him. Many things to work thru. I want to text him and see if he will text me back but I honestly doubt he will. I just miss him so bad. He knows it but I still wish I could tell him.

bumble · 08-06-2008, 01:55 PM

I would not tell him anything. In time you will feel beter, but right now the situation makes it hard to think clearly. Do you really want to be with a man that left you for another woman? Do you want to always be thinking he will do it again? Keep contact short and about the children. Right now you have a void that you feel you need to fill, but the best thing for you is time to heal. In time you perspective on things will change and the void will not be screaming to be filled.

honey28 · 08-07-2008, 11:22 PM

i would turn it off if it is affecting your credit. call the police if he gets irate.

draconis · 08-08-2008, 12:12 AM

Turn it off befoire he ruins your credit and uses you more. In this case the high road maybe the suckers path.

draconis