ant203

Have you tried telling him how these things make you feel?

"When you look at other women the way i see you looking at them, it makes me feel unattractive/worthless"

"When you don't come to bed at night, i feel lonely and unloved"

As for what some have said about the sleeping pills, and such...what do the expect? You get treated like trash and get no attention from your husband, it only makes sense that you would want some from SOMEONE.

Long comment short, TALK to him. Make him understand how you feel. Move on from there based on his reaction.

MsLonely

You know your man always enjoys checking out other women even before you get married, don't you? So now you have to love your choice.
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Gabrielle67

I understand that people are always going to notice attractive women/men but I believe it is disrespectful to check someone out while you are in the presence of your significant other.It`s a matter of being considerate (respectful) to his/her feelings. If you love that person you will appreciate them and want them to feel like they are above all others...no matter where you are or who else is with you. If you find it elevating, or in some way gratifying to tear someone down by disrespecting their feelings than obviously you do not love them but you love yourself. The bottom line is some men/women are well mannered (have class) and others are not. My advice to you is to stop beating yourself up and learn to love and accept yourself for the special, unique woman that you are. If your spouse makes you feel bad do something to make yourself feel good. Maybe you should spend a little more time by yourself doing what you enjoy too. All people have beauty (many just hide it ) and you do as well. Buy yourself a new outfit in your best color, get your hair done (maybe try a new style). Don`t be afraid to show the world (and yourself) your beauty (in a tasteful manner). Be good to yourself as well as your loved ones.