Re: How many dates before sex?
Very well said silk-butterfly, and I'm happy for you.
As for the kiss and cuddle date, did you want more? What I'm asking is, is it your belief or expectation that this relationship is going to be a sexual one?
I don't mean to imply that sex is or should be the goal. That's not my point and I don't think I'm expressing my point very eloquently.
I'm in a new relationship. Following the first date, I knew this is someone that I wanted to get to know more and would like to be intimate with. The successive dates were about building that foundation of learning about one another, and establishing rapport.
By date #3 I was very confident that we were moving towards an intimate relationship. As a result, I really don't feel any need to rush a thing. Whereas, I think if I didn't have that 'vibe' at all, or she made it clear that sex wasn't on her radar ... we wouldn't have had dates 4,5, and 6.
I'm pretty open about what I'm looking for. I'm not looking to simply hook up, but having been intimacy deprived for many years as my marriage died - if intimacy isn't a possibility, I'm not much interested. I'll be even more specific, I'm looking for bonfire passion and sparks flying every where.
In that regard, it's pretty easy to tell if someone is onboard with that program.
Best of luck with your new beau.