10-29-2010, 07:19 AM
Join Date: Oct 2009
| | Re: Calling husband names...
While i'm not going to rule in favor of "walk away" when someone's unreasonable, Cathrine does prove a strong point. Stand your ground, tell him what bothers you but in a mature and responsible manner. Remember that as rude as he is to you, your goal is not to hurt him and attack right back. That'll only make the conflict last longer.
Your goal is to make him understand that he'll not get a positive reaction if he treats you that way, or what he wants. He'll just get a person telling him that you might consider doing what he wants, or working on offering more only IF he learns how to ask for it in a mature, nice way and he accepts that you might not always want to give to him or answer any single question.
If the calling names is a good way for you to release some frustrations when you're on your own, you might as well continue doing it. It shows no harm at all and it's definately better than keeping them bottled up and repressing stuff.
Just my opinion
Best of luck in figuring things out.
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