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post #16 of 50 (permalink) Old 04-02-2014, 03:55 AM
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We sleep naked together. We take a shower together most mornings. So yeah, many hours a day
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We pretty much have a rule - no wearing clothes in the bed, except that certain time of the month. But this means we need something nearby to throw on quickly if kids need to come in the room.
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How often do you see and show your spouse your nakedness? And what sort of effect does it play on the spouse when they see you naked. Does it arouse him/her? Or is it so normal you just don't notice it anymore?

I'm struggling with my husband "noticing" me and finding me sexy. Maybe I'm naked too much?
I see him naked during sex,when he's taking his clothes off before bed,when he's getting ready to take a shower,and all night he's naked.

Same goes for his exposure to my nekkid ass It thrills us every time. I love watching him walk naked whether he's facing me or walking away.Admiring his package,his strong legs,his tight round butt...omg.

Why do you feel your husband doesn't notice you? Maybe he's checking you out and you just don't see it? What has you feeling like he doesn't think you're sexy?
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No kids here so we see each other naked a lot.
The weather is warn sometimes so it's either we're naked or half naked indoors.
Sometimes when the doorbell rings , either of us will shout ;

" Hun , somebody's by the door , put on your clothes.."

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You all need to go read her other thread...

Want to feel sexy again.

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oh my.This definitely has nothing to do with you being naked too much,OP. There is so much going on w/him. Did he get his T tested yet? Have you guys been to therapy yet?
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Re: Naked Often in front of Spouse?

My wife and I have a healthy sex life but...for some reason she is still shy around me when it comes to being naked. After 17 years, she still runs to the bathroom to change her clothes so that I don't see her naked. If she is changing in front of me and I start looking at her, she gets self conscious.

I don't think you being naked in front of him is causing your issues in light of the other thread. IMHO, the nudity in front of him would only be an aid to promoting more sexuality. I would love to see my wife more open to letting me see her naked. Fortunately, when it's time for intimacy, her inhibitions drop. But it would be nice from a foreplay standpoint to see more nudity from my wife. In that regard, your husband is lucky.
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Re: Naked Often in front of Spouse?

I have a hard time keeping him clothed, lol. No kids at home so we are able to do as we please. I am a bit more shy so mostly I wear longish very fine cotton or linen dresses around the house with nothing underneath. He likes liberal access to my body and I like it, too.

He has said that when he is out of the house and I am home just the thought of my attire is a turn on.

I hate when people come around and I have to put a bra on...

Sleeping, of course naked, ones body needs to breathe, sometimes I start out with something sexy and frisky... Sorta my way of initiating.
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You all need to go read her other thread...

Want to feel sexy again.

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Thank your Pbear....I always forget to do that....you should really be a moderator here on TAM...
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One of my favorite things is watching her get ready before going out and walking around naked. Even better if the result is us being late.

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Re: Naked Often in front of Spouse?

OP,

Your issues really have nothing to do with nakedness. I don't blame you for asking the question, but it's very difficult to give good advice when the whole "backstory" is missing. I have found on TAM that people will often "rephrase" what is essentially the same question over and over, moving it from one sub-forum to another, hoping to hear what they want to hear.

You already know that your husband has deep sexual issues, your marriage is suffering because of it, and no amount of nakedness or sexy lingerie (or anything else for that matter) is going to change things until the root cause of his sexual hangup is addressed.

Sorry if that sounds harsh, just my honest opinion.

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I am naked frequently, but my husband doesn't usually notice me in any kind of sexual way unless I'm pointedly seeking such attention. I don't get looks or leers or comments.
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Thank your Pbear....I always forget to do that....you should really be a moderator here on TAM...
Oh, lord no! Then I'd have to behave myself!

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I love chasing her through my house naked.

I would be a nudist in another life.

And her too probably.
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We both sleep naked so every day.

Isn't it strange how the mistress always thinks shes smarter than the wife. If shes so smart then why is she the mistress.??
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