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post #1 of 50 (permalink) Old 04-01-2014, 10:33 PM Thread Starter
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Naked Often in front of Spouse?

I'm naked a lot in front of my spouse. I usually sleep naked (or just in my undies) , I get ready naked in the morning, I'm half naked after my shower in the evening...

How often do you see and show your spouse your nakedness? And what sort of effect does it play on the spouse when they see you naked. Does it arouse him/her? Or is it so normal you just don't notice it anymore?

I'm struggling with my husband "noticing" me and finding me sexy. Maybe I'm naked too much?

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I know for me, we used to have no problem with necked time. However, for me, while problems are heavy and I am not feeling as if my spouse likes me too much, it is hard to be naked in front of him. It feels too exposed. Before this little issue as of now, he always reacted well and preferred I stay naked. Of course kids being home hinders that. I say talk with your spouse. Ask what he is into these days.
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I see my wife naked plenty. But I've been swatted back enough over the years that I hide it now. I pretend like it's nothing. If she were more welcoming of my playful advances then I would check her out more and comment more, but hey, if she doesn't need the ego boost then I'm not going to put myself out there for rejection.
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Re: Naked Often in front of Spouse?

We have kids in the house, so its kind of hard to do.

I love to see my wife's body. I go in and use the bathroom while she's bathing. Look and just smile. Sometimes I just go in to harass her. Quite often we bathe together, even though I hate a bath. I also don't have a problem going in the bedroom when she's changing at times.

I enjoy ogling her, and she don't seem to mind.
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Isn't that why we are all married?.....to see each other naked in the bath, shower, bedroom?.....Doesn't marriage=naked spouse...IDK...this should be a very good thing I think...
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This is something I miss about marriage. Not many things but this for sure
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We sleep naked together. We take a shower together most mornings. So yeah, many hours a day
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We have kids in the house, so its kind of hard to do.
We have 3 in the house and we don't let it stop us. We have a lock on our door bedroom and a master bath.
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This is something I miss about marriage. Not many things but this for sure
I know.....this is what I LOVE about being married....Dh works a lot....but I love going into the bath when he is showering...pulling back the curtain, lusting at his hot bod........whew ....sorry there....talking about his day and jumping in the shower with him.......

Then maybe the next day I am in the family room watching a show, or the news and he comes next to me and slaps his penis on my lips or forehead....and beckons me to follow him into our bedroom.......IDK...I am a different kind of wife...I like all that.
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I am often nude around my husband. He loves it....especially when he is thinking about making love to me.

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I live in Scandinavia. I could look out the window to nearby apartment blocks. Not being naked because of kids in the house would make no sense to anyone here. Not many apartments have a bath tub, so my girlfriends friends would often have a bath while we chatted. It was a big bath, so sometimes my girlfriend would be in there too.
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I know.....this is what I LOVE about being married....Dh works a lot....but I love going into the bath when he is showering...pulling back the curtain, lusting at his hot bod........whew ....sorry there....talking about his day and jumping in the shower with him.......

Then maybe the next day I am in the family room watching a show, or the news and he comes next to me and slaps his penis on my lips or forehead....and beckons me to follow him into our bedroom.......IDK...I am a different kind of wife...I like all that.
I kind of love this post! Wouldn't have dared to post it myself, but I hear ya'...........
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Why would having kids in the house stop you from seeing your spouse naked? It's just a human body for goodness sake.
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Re: Naked Often in front of Spouse?

OP - has it always been this way with your husband? Does he show interest in you at other times?

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Re: Naked Often in front of Spouse?

We see each other naked daily. If it's in passing, getting ready in the morning, he's been known to just stop in the doorway and watch me... I'm usually rushing to get ready and not in 'sexy mode' and tend to just laugh (that he finds me sexy when I don't feel it). He might make flirtatious/appreciative comments or touch. My husband is one that enjoys a tease and build-up. I get cold at night but when I do sleep naked he loves it and it's good for our intimacy.

He's unfazed if windows and blinds are open as he walks through our home naked. I'm one for privacy whereas he doesn't think neighbors can see. Sometimes I'll act goofy about hiding his package as he walks from the bathroom to our bedroom (which means I'm following him to the bedroom). Other times I'll often give him a wide-eyed appreciative look or comment.

We've had our challenges in the bedroom though... essentially came down to needs not being met etc. outside of the bedroom. Once that started to change, it allowed the rest to follow.

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