Help: Wife is accusing me of cheating, but I didn't (UPDATED)
My wife and I have been married 5 years. There has been no infedelity in the marriage. I'm very much a home-body and rarely go out and hang out with friends (I do so maybe 5 or 6 times a year I'd say).
Last night I went out with 2 friends (both guys) for the first time in a long time. We went out bar hopping in SF to watch the ws game, and to help my friend sell these Giants t-shirts he had made.
I left the house around 2pm. We end up drinking at a bonfire, and I get home around 12 or 1am or so (I think, I was pretty drunk by the time I got home). Right when I get home I strip bare-ass naked and hop in bed with my wife. She immediately says I smell like soap, and says that I took a shower while I was out (which basically means she thinks I cheated). I deny this, and pass out.
When I wake up late the next morning, she is sleeping on the couch. Then she comes into the bedroom and asks me: "What are you still doing here?" and tells me to get out. I'm furious and completely lose my sh*t with her.
This is a recurring problem. She periodically accusses me of cheating. She has no reason to think I cheat on her. I've never been unfaithful, I don't flirt, I don't have female friends, and I rarely go out. But every now and then she accusses me of cheating, and she can't be reasoned with.
This just happened, and right now I'm at the public library typing this. I don't know what I should do. Should I leave? Should I go back home and try to talk to her? How should I handle this????
Last edited by SeeThomasHowl; 11-03-2010 at 09:22 AM.