10-31-2010, 07:47 PM
Join Date: Oct 2010
| | Should I be Worried?
I have been with my husband for 12 years and we have had our ups and downs. We married in 2004. My concern is that we have gotten in big altercation about his facebook account and myspace, because I did not the comments he was mking to other females. Now mind you I did have his account info, I did a search of some his freinds from his old high school and that's how I found out. He had it where I could not get into it. I printed out a pcture with his comment and one of the women and confronted him about it. to make a long story short after we got into a big argument and him wanting to leave because he felt like I was evading his privacy, he decided to deactivate his facbook account and myspace account right in front of me, which I was happy about. After all that I still felt like something was not right, so I put a keylogger on the computer and I know the sayin if you go looking for something. Anyway after checking the keylogger I found out his password and such for email addresses and of course I logged in and have been monitoring his email. I notice that every now and them that emailed a female stating that he can not find her on myspace and that's because he is no longer a member of myspace, but he said he needed to see apic of her and he called baby and she called him sweetheart. A day later she email a few pics one she had on a two piece bikini and I deleted them befor he could see them.
I have not told my husband about this because of course he would get furious and here we go again arguing. I can't tell him everything that I have done to find out, but I want to let him know that I know and it has to stop. It's not they email one another on a daily basis and he don't go out all the time just maybe one a month, but never stay out all night and he don't text all the time, he comes home straight from work, so i'm just wondering if I should worry about it as much