07-26-2008, 01:15 PM
Join Date: Jul 2008
| | Wife pretending to be someone else online
I have recently found out that my wife has alternate facebook and myspace profiles pretending to be a single mom living in a different state. She is using photos from one of her friends and her kid as her own on these profiles.
I became suspicious after I saw her filling out an About Me survey on facebook and in the "your favorite person in your life" field, she put down someone named Brendan. I searched on facebook and myspace using her other email address (she has 2 that she uses), and found the profiles. She uses the same passwords for everything, so I eventualy got in to them. I should note that she talks about this fake person to me every now and then about how they are good friends, etc. One day she claimed this fake friend was in the area, and my wife went to go visit "her". I don't believe she cheated on me though. I think she is just trying to make her fake friend more believable to me.
Once I got into the fake profiles, I saw a couple of people my wife would do some sexual flirting with. One in particular named Brendan. I don't think my wife has physically met any of these people, as I feel she doesn't want to blow her cover with these people seeing as her photos online are not her.
I checked her messenger friend lists, and found Brendan on her yahoo one. Her shared picture on her yahoo messenger is of my wife's friend's little girl.
I would like to hear opinions on how to handle this one. My wife has gone to great lengths to try and keep this a secret from me. My wife spends upwards of 10 hours a day online at times.