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Old 11-08-2010, 02:10 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Old 11-08-2010, 02:18 PM   #2 (permalink)
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I'm struggling. My ex (who I reconciled with for a bit for our son) has had a history of being absent minded on important things. Finances.. Filed bankruptcy. Etc etc. Well he went to therapy and seemed to be improving in that area. We have a 4 year old in pre k. He drops him off every morning and he takes bus home and I am home for him after school. Anyway his school called on Friday and said they saw on the paperwork they found by accident that he had a peanut allergy. It's severe. We have to carry an epi pen. I filled the rx for another pen for school. I gave it to him to drop off to the school..2 months ago. The dr was supposed to sign paperwork and send to school. I told nurse my husband dropped off epi pen. She said NO.

Turns out he "got confused". He forgot. The kid could have died! They had no idea because they never received the meds I bought 2 months ago. I'm just so upset. He says he's "sorry". I redelivered everything but I feel like reporting him or something!

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I don't know honey. My H is very absentminded, so I usually handle all the things that concern the kids, just so I know they are done.

I am not sure what you would report him for?
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You should ask your husband to submit to a full workup physical and to psyche evaluation. No one is that absent minded without some kind of disorder, disease, or medical condition.
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He must. This is just another problem... In a series.
I was thinking of reporting him to the attorney.. When it comes to the custody battle.

I was trying not to get upset about it but he honestly called me complaining that the nurse was "mean" to him when he dropped off the rx yesterday. I called and triple checked he did everything and then he got mad at me for checking up on him.

How could he be so clueless... And actually get upset the nurse was "mean" to him and acted as if she "shi$ in his cheerios". Unreal. He just can't get it

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He must. This is just another problem... In a series.
I was thinking of reporting him to the attorney.. When it comes to the custody battle.
I was trying not to get upset about it but he honestly called me complaining that the nurse was "mean" to him when he dropped off the rx yesterday. I called and triple checked he did everything and then he got mad at me for checking up on him.

How could he be so clueless... And actually get upset the nurse was "mean" to him and acted as if she "shi$ in his cheerios". Unreal. He just can't get it


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You already know my full opinion in regards to this guy. Document EVERYTHING!!! Have the correspondences of the nurse from your son's school in writing. He may not be a bad guy, but he has to step his game up. 2/3 kids were born with severe medical issues, me and my wife have to be responsible or else kids would really be in a lot of trouble.
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You either have to do everything yourself or check up on the important things.
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