Re: How do you deal with arguments?
I at first, try to talk it out in a calm, mature manner: "Honey, can we talk?" And usually, this works, but there have been times when it has come to trading blows(NOT LITERALLY!), and so we will vent, we will argue, but then I like to be alone, collect my thoughts and regroup, before I do or say something I regret. Then, when all is quiet on the western front, it goes back to "Honey, can we talk?"
Neither my W or me are very confrontational, and for the most part, we talk and work the problem or compromise. And if we can't find a solution, (so far, we've always been able to), then I'll try to seek advice from friends, family, here.
Bottom line is, we hate to argue, and we always try to find a diplomatic solution before declaring war.