Ok, I was having this conversation about about guys point of view on things.
My husband and I were having this conversation about some friends of ours having a argument about one of his past girlfriend texting him about having sex and supposedly he text back that he was happily married and no thanks. I guess she went in to his phone looking at his textes and asked him if he had something he needed to tell her. I guess she got mad that he didnt tell her about it and they got in a big argument and she left him....dont know more than that, because my husband had said to the friend you should have not said anything at all about doing anything with this woman ....I guess the friend said that he had kissed her in the past to his wife, which isn't the point...My husband mad me kind of mad, because he in his moments of being petty has said things about his past sex life, which I do not want to know and it kind of felt like he was trying to rub it in my face when he did it...I feeling that it was just being very childish let it go at the time, but I said to him when he told me this about our friends that he has told me and I "didn't" want to know,..he was like there are two rules and they are don't tell wives or g/f about your past sex life and don't ask them. I just was trying to point out that he shouldn't be giving advice he doesn't follow him self.....he does this all the time and it makes me mad...for one it is not any of our business and we dont' have the most perfect relationship and he should not be giving advice about how to deal with woman when he can't even understand me. I didn't say all that...I was thinking it. I just pointed out that not all woman act like that to their b/f or husbands about woman texting or leaving messages as long as the husband has made it clear hes not interested. I said he has told me about his past and I did not and would not tell him mine even if he asked because it is none of his business. he got all mad saying ooo would you want me to say things about your past love life...and I was like you can't because I have never said anything to you about it and this mad him madder and hes was like what your love life was just sooo great you can't tell me about it...and I was like you just didn't go there and I walked out the room shaking my head, because of his behavior. All I wanted to point out is he has done to me what he is saying is one of his rules he told his friend not to do and he should not be giving advice about woman and not all woman act that way me for one.....I feel like I should not have even bothered saying anything, because now hes all mad...but when him and me had major problems everyone butted in and trying to give advice and it just made things worse and I feel he should not be giving advice.
I really just try and just stay out of other peoples business as best I can. I don't think my husband has learned that. He seems to love to butt in to other peoples business still and gossip about it to other people....sometimes I feel like even though he is older then me by about 10 years I act more experienced in this. I like to think I learn from past mistakes and he does not it gets frustrating..I am here more to let some steam off ...I certainly do not know how men think....I don't know if I shouldn't even bother to get him to stop butting in to other peoples personal lives ...I also don't understand if he got all mad because I pointed it out that he is telling them not to do something he has done to me......hes so confusing sometimes I feel like I shouldn't bother talking to him at all all he wants to do is gossip and I get mad about it...isn't suppose to be the other way around...lol
A guys point of view?
