Soooo...your gonna need to put on your imagination hats for this one..
I am tired of acting like a husband to my wife and receiving only a friend.
Tired of her feeling like she has to lie in order not to hurt me.
Tired of living like a damn Munk....a fella has needs...
Got into it with the wife the other night told her that if this keeps up I wanted a divorce....
I stand by that...but I'm not giving up yet.
Made a date to have a talk with my wife...yep had to schedule it in...this coming tuesday
I've done the mushy route, done the strict route(sorta worked) but I am going to take a different route...
Heres the plan.
House to ourself. Making Dinner. Getting some brew. And going back to well High School.
I'm gonna take her to the bedroom...start out by saying once we enter the room all bets are off, all shields are down..and anything can/will go.
I'm going to have the room candle lit..relaxing you know...I'm going to have her lingerie laid out across the bed..and all our ummm sexual things
Then without saying to much going to tell her to relax. I'll be right back.
Then I'm going to come back into the room...stark ass naked. And I'm going to be the "host" of bottom line TRUTH OR DARE...
Yeah I know I know....cheesy but I got to do something...and this will create a strange enough enviroment where she won't know what to expect....
Update and Itinerary:
Things to do for Tuesday.
First off the evening is all about communication…getting rid of the walls of mis trust and hesitation that were built. You have to be completely open and non-defensive..make sure that is known upfront.
Before doing any of this Make sure to ask that she instill trust for that night only. Make sure to ask her to go along with everything…make sure she is willing to come in with an open mind.….and make sure it is known that you are NOT looking for sex….also make sure your stance is known…have what you want to talk about ready
I think I am going to start out by saying in the morning: “Shelly, I know that your uncomfortable with a lot of things between me and you. I want you to know that I still love you. I’m not asking for you to return that but I am asking for this evening with you to be free and clear. Give me this last night to talk/work on things with you. You loved me enough at one point to marry me, give me this night. Not expecting sex and if anything starts to make you uncomfortable let me know. We will be talking about a lot of things, but this isn’t going to be what you are expecting. See you tonight.”
1.) Clean the Room – Emaculate
2.) TURN OFF CELL PHONES
3.) Clean the Bathroom
4.) Get rid of DOG or at least lock up for evening
5.) Plan to have the house clear of everyone for the entire evening.
6.) Get Candles – Have them Lit and Ready
7.) Cook Dinner – Real Light, says romantic but not over the top.
• Chicken – Lightly peppered – Topping the pasta
• Pasta dressed in Italian Dressing
• Rotello – Mid Spice mixed in with the pasta
8.) Draw bath while she is eating –allows her to get washed up –offer to bathe her/ wash back
a. DO NOT GET IN WITH HER…offer her privacy for about 10-20 minutes
b. Have a set of clothes ready for her to change into – Night clothes fine
c. Read set poem during the bath
9.) Prepare the room
a. Lay lingerie OR anything planned for use out – for the Truth or dare game
b. Have twister ready…how else you gonna get things kicked off for a “serious evening” – A little strip Twister – Include questions
i. Shows her you can still have fun…not everything is serious.
c. Have Truth or Dare game
i. bottom Line – All questions have to be answered honestly
d. Have lotions ready – For Sensual Full Body Massage…following all talks/dares – A night cap sorta-speak
e. Get over coat for the grand entry…hahaha
Its Time to Break wait SHatter the ICE
