I haven't been here a while, but now I'm here, I seriously need some guidance.
4 days ago my husband accidentally drove over our eldest' foot, which may leave permanent damage. For a child who lives for sports, this is terrible news. For a mother who watched it happen and couldn't be there in time to save him, it's a living nightmare.
For the father who did it, it must be a huge feeling of guilt.
So now, today my husband rebuked me for not remembering the frikken dogfood for 2 days in a row. Am I insane or is he the one? I was in and out of visiting my son at the hospital, making sure the kids at home have something to eat, I did not kill my husband for reckliss behaviour regarding our child (in court it would have been attempted man-slaugther through negligance),so if the frikken dog food is finished, buy the frikken food.
So...if he's indeed feeling guilty, why does he act as if he's not? How can I sleep next to a man who almost killed my child and does not express ANY feeling except over the lack of dogfood...
The dogs have eaten leftovers which they love more anyway...so what's really the issue here...I haven't forgiven him, cause I saw it happen and saw his arrogance at the speed at which he handled the car...pure neglect and pure lack of awareness where your children are...as it usually is.