Hi,
I have been lurking here for a little while and this is my first post. I really need some good advice on how to proceed.
My wife and I have been separated about a month and a half. That is when she moved out. We were living in the same house for about 3 weeks prior as separated.
For all intents and purposes it was done. Well, last week we started talking about working on things and getting back together. The issue is she has a boyfriend that I know she likes.
She lied to me about seeing him on Friday, but when I pressed she told me the truth. She said she would break up with him. They went out for 3 hours in the afternoon and she said it was done. However, when I asked she kissed him goodbye she got defensive and wouldn't answer, basically saying that she had.
He lives out of town. Now, this week she is planning a trip near his city to visit family. I think she is going to go see him, but she says she is going to hang out with a girl friend and then to her family.
This is an abbreviated version of the story, but what should I do? We aren't technically together, but we are dating. Should I just let this go and let her get it out of her system? We are planning on going on a trip together the following week to work on us.
Please give your advice. Thanks!
I have been lurking here for a little while and this is my first post. I really need some good advice on how to proceed.
My wife and I have been separated about a month and a half. That is when she moved out. We were living in the same house for about 3 weeks prior as separated.
For all intents and purposes it was done. Well, last week we started talking about working on things and getting back together. The issue is she has a boyfriend that I know she likes.
She lied to me about seeing him on Friday, but when I pressed she told me the truth. She said she would break up with him. They went out for 3 hours in the afternoon and she said it was done. However, when I asked she kissed him goodbye she got defensive and wouldn't answer, basically saying that she had.
He lives out of town. Now, this week she is planning a trip near his city to visit family. I think she is going to go see him, but she says she is going to hang out with a girl friend and then to her family.
This is an abbreviated version of the story, but what should I do? We aren't technically together, but we are dating. Should I just let this go and let her get it out of her system? We are planning on going on a trip together the following week to work on us.
Please give your advice. Thanks!