My husband is stuck in the wrong job,worng place,wrong surrounding for a year now. He hates it to the core but we need the job as it gives us our daily bread. I don't work presently because I took a break to start my graduate program and so we need this job.
But, he is so unhappy here. No one appreciates his work and all the work is dumped on him. Initially, when he told me all this, abotu a year back, I did not believe him. Later, I went to his work place, met his colleagues etc and all were praising him for his work and patience to handle his job. I so feel bad for him. We are searching a new job for him for almost 8 months now but in vain. We are even ready to move to a different state/city(right now we are in NY). Still things are not working out. I hope the Lord takes us out of this situation soon. He is soo unahppy and stressed out and I cannot see him this way. I try to give a good surrounding at hom by cooking good food, being patient and loving,taking care of all the other responsibilities etc.
Moreover, I have my GMAT test(standardized test) in 2 months and I'm not even able to concentrate because of these issues at home. I cannot even share all this with husband as he is already far too stressed out than me.
How can I keep him cheer ful and less stressed out and keep him going till he finds a better job? I am just not able to see him this way. It just breaks me down daily in the morning. I'm scared that he wil go into depression(he is already sad and unhappy a lot).
Please pour in any suggestions or opinions.
But, he is so unhappy here. No one appreciates his work and all the work is dumped on him. Initially, when he told me all this, abotu a year back, I did not believe him. Later, I went to his work place, met his colleagues etc and all were praising him for his work and patience to handle his job. I so feel bad for him. We are searching a new job for him for almost 8 months now but in vain. We are even ready to move to a different state/city(right now we are in NY). Still things are not working out. I hope the Lord takes us out of this situation soon. He is soo unahppy and stressed out and I cannot see him this way. I try to give a good surrounding at hom by cooking good food, being patient and loving,taking care of all the other responsibilities etc.
Moreover, I have my GMAT test(standardized test) in 2 months and I'm not even able to concentrate because of these issues at home. I cannot even share all this with husband as he is already far too stressed out than me.
How can I keep him cheer ful and less stressed out and keep him going till he finds a better job? I am just not able to see him this way. It just breaks me down daily in the morning. I'm scared that he wil go into depression(he is already sad and unhappy a lot).
Please pour in any suggestions or opinions.