Re: grumpy husband
Okay. You've made some good points. Since it's bothering me that much, I have to say something. But I have a feeling that things won't change much though because I reckon that it's just the way he is It seems to be a bit more prominent now, as he gets older, and I suppose that I've changed too. But I will discuss it with him. I'll also mention the check-up idea, but I don't think it's a medical thing and he would have to be at death's door to go to the doctor anyway, but I'll mention it.
So, if he realises what it is that's bothering me and things get better, then problem solved. But what happens if he doesn't/can't/won't change? I then have to decide if his attitude is a 'dealbreaker' for me, or not. Because this isn't something clear cut, like abuse or cheating for example, how do I know if I'll be better off with or without my marriage? (He is 'difficult', but his behaviour isn't emotional abuse) I know you can't answer that for me because you don't know my husband and you're not me, but how does someone make such a decision. It seems almost impossible.
Any opinions appreciated.