Re: grumpy husband
If the grumpiness is that constant, and it's making you that miserable, then yes, you need to tell him, even if it causes a fight.
I understand your reluctance to cause an argument, but at the same time, you cannot and should not sacrifice your happiness just to keep the peace.
If he refuses to seek help, and/or insists this is just who he is, then you need to consider whether or not it's really worth this. I know you love him, and I know how hard it can be to leave someone you still love, but if you stay and allow him to continue to make your life miserable, eventually you will stop loving him and begin resenting him and that resentment will taint all of your memories of him.
The first step is to tell him what he's doing and insist something be done about it. Whether you insist he see a doctor for a health check up, or see a therapist for some counseling or just insist he stop treating you that way, doesn't matter. You have to take that first step to let him know you won't be treated this way anymore.
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