Your situation sounds similar to mine. My husband bottled up every emotion until it just got the better of him and he considered getting out. When I'd had enough and he was faced with the end it wasn't what he wanted so now we are working through it. We also did nothing but work and spend time with our kids and we are best friends. We learned though that we were not doing what was best for us all. We need that break from our kids. We love them dearly but the small breaks we take for each other have rekindled our relationship. My husband wasn't open to talking about it or trying anything either but he did come around. I hope your wife will too.
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Originally Posted by AZ_Nick
She tells me that it was nothing that I did. We have just been living together with no spark. I am the one who always shares my emotions with her, I have to get them out of her all the time. I know she is frustrated with her business, and the kids but she has a lot of pride. I do not think she has cheated on me, shes not that way. I have been very loyal as well. I do not have any friends, I work, come home, and spend time with my wife and kids. Thats it. My wife and I do everything together with the kids. I think that is one of the problems. But she does not want to open it for discussion. She is my best friend, and thats what hurts the most. It like you and living your life, tackling issues together, doing what a good husband does and all of the sudden she wants to separate. I guess I got to give her what she wants. It just don't make sense. I thought couples are suppose to solve their problems together.
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