Re: Fiancee Not over her ex boyfriend
You seem to have your own issues going on here. You seem to have some uncomfortable feelings, borderline jealousy over her ex. Yes she shouldn't of mentioned the good times they had, but methinks you overacted on your response. Women, even if they are in good relationship, will sometimes reflect on the relationship that went bad, especially one that was as long as the one she had with her ex, plus the child. I doubt she said what she said to make you feel jealous, so you shoudln't of responded angrily.
What to do now? Continue to listen, its your job. Hold her hand and walk her through this. She's transferring the pain she thinks her son feel into guilt about herself. Her ex is playing on her emotional strings, and he knew EXACTLY how she would respond because his actions. DON'T ignore her, don't snap at her, continue to reinforce to her that its her ex that's at fault for this, not her. He is the one that is dropping the ball and is losing out. Tell her that she shouldn't let herself get manipulated by him 5000 miles away. I tell women all the time, if a man isn't crying over you... then you shouldn't be crying over the actions of a man.