01-13-2011, 12:59 PM
Join Date: Oct 2010
| | Re: White Spots on his underwear
Originally Posted by sacredheart
Hi everyone! I'm really hoping that some of you can shed some light on an issue I'm having with my boyfriend. Recently while doing laundry in the last few weeks I've noticed a few times white spots/stains in my boyfriends boxers. I'm not sure what they are but I'm thinking it's not good as the days I noticed the spots we weren't intimate and he was at work. Sometimes the stains are hard like an ejaculate stain and sometimes I've noticed that they're not hard. The one day I saw some, they were really low in his boxers. Like where his legs would be. He said that was from cysts/boils that he has on his legs that busted and it must be pus from that. Well, it was ALOT of pus if that were the case. I question it though because it was on the lower part of his boxers.
When I confronted him the other times he says he doesn't know. The only way there would be stains from sexual intercourse would be from us. Those days we were not intimate.
So my question is, do I need to be concerned that he is cheating? I don't even know if these are ejaculate stains or something else. Can a man have these types of spots/stains normally without sex, etc.?
I'm just really concerned. I can't believe that I'm even to this point where I have to ask but I don't want to be taken advantage of. I'm really asking for your input and it's so greatly appreciated. Thanks!
P.S. I have other reasons to suspect cheating. Secret friendship/relationship with a "friend" at work that he never told me about. THis was back in October. According to him it was just a friendship and all communication has stopped.
Any reason to think it is not from boils? Does he not have boils?
I don't recall ever having ejaculation stains in my underwear on a regular basis for whatever reason.