diesel

Help.after 33 yrs my wife says she has had enough.the state of the house and that i threw my kids out for drug use.She says i don,t want a family etc.Now she wants me out so she can have space.I have been violent and destructive to dishes and furniture, but i haven,t hit her.she still called the police and said she feared for her safety.Most of the problems started during her menopause,but she says she is over that.Sex is a little bit one sided,and she never shows any affection the next day.She will only say she loves me when asked.But she always initiates sex so what is going on

F-102

I said it in your other post.
"I need space" in womanese may mean "I've met someone".

loren

No woman would feel safe with a violent destructive man in their home. If you can't control yourself to the point that dishes and furniture have to pay, maybe she thinks she's next. Try anger management.

HM3

I agree with loren. No woman wants to live with a destructive man. Your behaviour is wrong and you need to correct it.