Re: My spouse is boring.
Thank you all for good inputs and advice!
When I talked to my husband we should create "some sparks" in our marriage, he quickly agreed with me. It's very obvious he also feels bored but he doesn't know what to do, either.
Thus, not only women but also men need to feel excited in marriage life but after married, the fact is we spent more time in watching Tv, shopping for groceries, entertaining visitors, paying attention to the kid's studies & school, and worrying about the unrepaired broken stuff in the house...etc. etc. than having a romantic dinner and outing with the spouse.
I don't mean to have a peaceful family life with a certain level of working stress & boredom is terrible. It's just boring year after year, everyday we repeat the same thing just to raise up the kid.
Gradually and certainly, the passion faded and the chemistry disappeared.
It's getting harder and harder to keep the faith but getting easier and easier to fool around. To maintain the romantic feelings with the spouse in bed and out of bed is very important.
Last edited by MsLonely; 01-17-2011 at 06:44 AM.