02-10-2011, 12:48 PM
Join Date: Sep 2010
| | Re: This may be a "Love Languages" issue.
Originally Posted by jem5
Physical touch doesnt mean just sex. If you read the book it can mean just putting your hand on him, holding hands, hugging, putting your arm around him, kissing him on the cheek, etc. Physical touch is not just sex and doesnt mean you have to just put out all the time. There are other ways to communicate intimacy without just going to the bedroom.
I know that, I've read the book.
I'm just reaching for solutions that I can initiate, and aiming to see love coming from my H, instead of just flaws.
But thank you for adding that point, you're right. One of MY LL's is physical touch too, in terms of cuddly affection.
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