09-03-2008, 04:44 PM
Join Date: Sep 2008
| | Re: What pushes a guy away? About the chase?
Originally Posted by nikkilaya1234
All guys I've talked to say that it's about the chase. I'm one who puts everything into a relationship and put him first. I've been in only two serious relationships and got hurt both times. With all my boyfriends I get some kind of message waaaayy later saying "you were such a great girlfriend. I was stupid for treating you like I did." It makes me question what I'm doing wrong. This last relationship lasted 2 years. He was awesome the first year. He told me that he was the one who always got hurt by his exes making me the first he was mean to and didn't try with. Is it sex? Does that really push a guy away? It feels like after the first time, things are perfect but the more and more we do it the more and more he doesn't care anymore. It's like he fell out of love with me.
Guys, how would the perfect relationship go for you from dating up until marriage? What are the dos and don'ts? What makes you say "this is the most perfect girl for me?"
In your next relationship, don't be too fast to dish it out. Girls have spoiled guys in that way. Try your best to really get to know the person first. I know this is hard, because they are so cool in acting good, and telling you things you want to hear. Just don't give out sex to try to hold on to a guy. If he really wants to be with you, you will know it's not just sex he is after.