02-11-2011, 11:17 PM
Join Date: Sep 2010
Originally Posted by Powerbane
My wife was the same way - this was after she said she was leaving and I was grasping at straws to prevent it. To this day she has not.
The way I got around it was actively listening and observing different things over the course of a few weeks. We eventually got to a point where I was experimenting and doing certain things in a certain love language - took a while but I pretty much nailed them.
We're just now to the point where I told her about the love languages and then asked her what she thought mine were. She nailed mine too - this led to a whole discussion about hers. She made me guess, but from my observations and actively listening - I was dead on!
So it's not impossible to do this alone.
That sounds kind of fun.
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