Well, what does she say when you talk to her about it?
She just doesn't have an answer. She gets uncomfortable talking about it and walks away.
Is it a kissing thing or is it that she withholds forms of affection (hugging, snuggling, touching, etc.) as a whole?
If it is kissing only then perhaps she has a concern about germs or some type of actual phobia. If she is simply not a touchy-feely person that is a different type of issue.
Well, now that I think of it, it seems to be both: a withhold from affection and a phobia. She is the type that gets disgusted of germs, so she never touches intimate parts, she does not let me touch her with the same hand that I use to touch her intimate parts, and she never allows oral sex. So, I'm starting to lean towards your theory about a phobia!
If she has never kissed you or been into kissing then she probably just doesn't enjoy kissing.
I would think so, but again, kissing should be a natural instinct, shouldn't it?
For me, kissing is the ultimate expression of love.
Nothing turns me on more than kissing before intimacy.
I dealt with the same issue, and it sucks.
She would turn her head.....or ALWAYS stop before me.
After she cheated on me, she informed the that the OM was a good kisser. I can't tell you how much that killed me. I know that I am a good kisser, its more about the feelings.
She grew to resent me, so she didnt want to kiss me.
The OM was blowing smoke up her ass, so the kissing felt great.
I recommend you get to the bottom of this. It can lead to problems.
I agree with you. Which is why this is driving me crazy.
But my wife would never cheat on me, I know for a fact that she loves me all the way to the core.
I love to kiss also. My wife hasn't liked to kiss me in a long time either. She may never have. I realized it about the same time I realized she hasn't loved me in a long time either. She may never have.
Connection? Maybe. The worst part is I don't care any more. Or maybe that's the best part...
To me, it is not a matter of love. If she doesn't love you, why is she still with you? Do you have kids? I have three beautiful daughters who have kept us really close.
What are the reasons she doesnt like kissing? Does she say?
I LOVE kissing. I think that its very intimate and should be enjoyed by ALL. However, in my marriage, I still kiss my husband but do not nearly enjoy it like I once did...this is due to all the bitterness I have toward him for hurting me. I find that when I kiss him I cringe. I do it b/c I feel like I "have" to....So this is the issue that Im having to work on myself...
Hope things get better for you.
I believe I'm a fine husband (don't we all
) I never hurt my wife, or at least try not to. Thanks.
I completely understand how you feel. My fiance wont kiss me either. When I try he turns his head. It really hurts me a lot. I feel that kissing one of the most intimate parts to a relationship. I read from another response asking if it's just kissing or if she lacks in cuddling, hugging, touching, etc. My fiance does, and that just put a whole new perspective on my relationship.
Well, it feels weird to see a man who doesn't like kissing, I can't understand that.