Re: Wife joined meetup.com?
I belong to meetup and use it primarily for professional and social networking. I have never used it for dating and honestly, didn't get the impression from the goups I was/am in that anyone really did. Obviously dating scenarios can present themselves as they can in any social arrangement.
Being someone who has moved a lot, I found meetup to be a quick way to get into a social circle and expand from there. The meetings can be stale, professional training type events, or going out for drinks, or anything really.
She wants to be social and have a social life independent of you. That doesn't automatically mean she's looking for hookup opportunities. I think it's a good thing to have a some, limited, social life independent of your spouse.
Do you ever go out with friends without her? Same thing no?
These aren't always bad things. But your boundaries are your boundaries and you should stick to them.
"It's just the normal way a TAM thread meanders along. You could start a thread on whether you prefer real butter or margarine and by the time the thread runs it's course you are discussing quantum physics and it's relevance to c0ck rings." ~Wysh
Last edited by DvlsAdvc8; 09-05-2014 at 11:16 AM.