03-01-2011, 10:11 AM
Join Date: Oct 2010
| | Re: Broken, Crushed, Lost, Where do I go from here
Jaded Heart...I haven't responded to many of your threads b/c I just didn't know what to say. I can't even guess how I'd react if I were in your situation. I have read every single one of them, though.
I guess I'm just wondering if maybe you're beating a dead horse here. If maybe you should just let HIM move out (he's the one not wanting to work on things, he can go) and then maybe..hopefully..he'll realize that he wants to try to work on things after all?
I think this SIL is getting in the way of any efforts you're making here. I'm not sure if he's still "foggy" in this r-ship with the SIL. It takes drastic measures to pull them out of the fog, if that's what it is.
I so understand your pain for your children. But they can be helped through this, if it comes down to his leaving. And I do know this much...if he told me to leave, I'd tell him if he wants to end this marriage, he would have to be the one to go. That I'm still here, still willing to fight for it, and not going anywhere.
I'm really sorry for what you're going through. I wish I had some good advice for you. There are a lot of people here way smarter than I am, hopefully they'll have something. For now..I'm just going to send you a cyber *hug*
The first time someone shows you who they are, believe them. ***Maya Angelou
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