03-07-2011, 05:25 PM
Join Date: Feb 2011
| | Newlyweds? Might as well be roommates...
My husband and I have only been married for 5 1/2 months, and I don't want to feel this way, but, I find myself wondering if we can make it. We feel more like roommates to me. We rarely have sex, or even kiss, and, it seems we just go to work, get groceries and watch some TV. On his days off, he sleeps half his day away. And, I get very frustrated when he tells me he wants up at a decent time, but, then sleeps until 1 or 2pm. Unless his mother calls, then, he'll get out of bed.
I don't initiate sex anymore -- I'm tired of the rejection. I'm tired of rejection in general, whether it's sex, or maybe we can go out for supper, or take a drive.
I just find myself so frustrated, and downright ticked off sometimes. It puts me in a sour mood, and I don't like feeling this way. I don't know how to talk about it with him without sounding accusing and confrontational.
I'd appreciate any suggestions.