Re: Facebook - #1 Cause of Relationship Problems
Once again, people blame something for their problems to avoid accepting responsibility for their problems. (I'm referring to the people in the so-called study)
Facebook is a tool. That's it. Just about anything can be twisted and reshaped to be used to cheat, if a person is determined enough. Just because someone uses Facebook (or e-mail, or a bar, or a disposable cell phone) to cheat does not mean that Facebook (or the other tools) CAUSED that person to cheat.
Cheating is caused by either something lacking in the character of the cheater, or in the primary relationship of the cheater. Instead of looking within themselves or within their relationship to figure out what's wrong and how to resolve it, they instead point the finger at whatever tools they used to facilitate the cheating.
The problem is not Facebook. The problem is that people don't want to take responsibility for their own actions; they want to blame someone or something other than themselves.
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