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post #1 of 3 (permalink) Old 03-28-2011, 05:18 PM Thread Starter
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How much more to take?

So I'm so confused right now. I dont know where my marriage is going right now. My wife is still not ready to talk to me after 11 day's. I know she pushed for the restraining order but after it was denined she wanted to talk but since she had me arrested I wasn't able to do under other conditions. I don't know what she's thinking she's not telling anyone. I know her car was spotted at the OM shop along with other cars which means she wasn't the only one there. I really don't know what to think. I can't jump the gun and say shes cheating because I have no proof. I want to be able to tell my wife my side of the story because I haven't been able to. But again I can't keep living like this. I've lost a ton of weight, and hardly sleep or eat. I heard she as well has lost weight. I got a job today just to help my situation. I have no court orders that say I can't go home a part of me say's give her space and hope she lets me come home. But I'm also in a situation where I have no car, no place to live, and no money right now. I don't know how long this is going to be and I don't want to just file divorce and make things dirty. I still love her very much but she hasn't told anyone were divorcing, or for me to come pack up and move out. I'm too confused and hurt and can't make the pain go away. I'm meeting my priest on Wed along with a counselor as well. [/I]

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post #2 of 3 (permalink) Old 03-28-2011, 06:25 PM
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Re: How much more to take?

What were you arrested for?
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post #3 of 3 (permalink) Old 03-28-2011, 11:59 PM Thread Starter
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She told the cops I was abusive and she got a temporary order saying I couldnt come home, come near her etc. The judge denied her order saying that being a concerned husband doesn't constitute abuse. I guess she doesn't want me to come home nor fix our marriage so tomorrow I'm filing the paperwork in court. If she chooses to work things out I'll be there. Right now I need to be with my son and I will be moving home anyway's because I'm not letting her put me out right now. There's no legal reason I can't be at the house either. I've had this time to think over 11 day's and the fact that she has the heart to do this to me and possibly having an affair with another guy already makes me sick. I'm playing hard ball this time and I'm not letting her get the upper hand. She might be facing purjury charges, Making false statement to a police officer, and Unlawful prosecution and being a government employee well you know that means being fired. Maybe that and me getting custody of our son will make her change her way's. Her party lifestyle seems to have gotten the best of her right now.
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