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Old 04-01-2011, 01:11 PM   #16 (permalink)
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I'm guessing this was your first time hearing something like this so you're still reacting to the shock. Don't worry, hopefully you won't have to get used to it, but if you do have to, you will. You did what you did and this little bit of abuse is really a small cost to pay imho. There's really no need to overreact and no one should be going anywhere, least of all you. Try not to make this a habit
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Old 04-01-2011, 04:45 PM   #17 (permalink)
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you sound like my husband and i a few years ago..argue...oral sex, argue...oral sex.

nothing ever got resolved from the fight so we had the same fight for 10/15 years...he wondered why i didnt llike doing it...well gee..

but we finally talked it out, and understand both sides, and at least now we have different dis-agreements.

our resolvence might not work out for you, but the rules are the same, taalk about whats really wrong, tell why you have to have oral right after a fight...

i dont think she hates you, i just think she might not like the people the two of you have become...and with holding sex--at least in your case--sounds like old anger being held onto, that needs to be addressed.
Dearest Pandakiss,

Would you be kind enough to let me know in detail how you two sought this out? I will make my wife read that. She is exactly like you she thinks it’s dirty and disgusting. No matter how hard I try to talk her into it, she never gives in.

I kind of know she doesn’t hate me. I really don’t understand why sex is a universal problem with women in general. One 100% of my friends tell me that how their wife’s would love them to be castrated (...LOL...). Also do you have any counter weapon against tears I always lose battle against? Whenever she cries I become really weak and end of it she has her way. Now last night she forced me to promise never ever ask her for something she does not want to do (read Oral Sex).


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I'm guessing this was your first time hearing something like this so you're still reacting to the shock. Don't worry, hopefully you won't have to get used to it, but if you do have to, you will. You did what you did and this little bit of abuse is really a small cost to pay imho.
Oh no, I am pretty use to being called things I cannot type here for the purpose of decency. But this time even I was worried anyways now I am cool and informed. When wife says something really bad she is not serious.
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