im young(18) and need advice about my relationsip...

sctrjn2006 · 09-24-2008, 10:51 PM

ok so i have this gf that ive known for over 4 years. we've been going out for 6 months.. i know her very well and i know almost everything about her.. but one thing that i do not understand is that on her myspace(evil space) she changed her status to single and she doesnt have not one photo of me.. to me i think this is strange so i asked her why and she said well is it true .. i said no and she said then dont freak out about it who cares what others think... i didnt say anything more but just kept on thinking about it.. should i just forget about it.. i feel weird that she is doing that
lol i really hate relationships sometimes.. lol

draconis · 09-24-2008, 10:55 PM

For now forget about it. She is a bit independent and it isn't as if you are serious. Plus remember that it is you that she goes out with right?

draconis

ConfusedWifeyinCA · 09-25-2008, 02:31 AM

I would say it depends on how serious you are with her? If you have both committed to be together and date nobody else then its very wrong for her to say single. It should read "in a relationship" because there is that option.

If she didnt care what others thought then why would it matter if it said single or in a relationship?

If you guys are just "dating" and not committed then that it different. Then I would let it be for now... until you decided to be exclusive.

butazez · 09-25-2008, 07:30 PM

If I had this knowledge when I was your age, I think it would have worked out better for me:

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Do not even consider getting into a serious relationship until you're 25. Do not consider getting married until you are happy with your career.

This mantra is aimed at guys, and I did not come up with it.

To sum it up - just have fun. Both of you are young.

ConfusedWifeyinCA · 09-27-2008, 02:46 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by butazez

If I had this knowledge when I was your age, I think it would have worked out better for me:

This mantra is aimed at guys, and I did not come up with it.

To sum it up - just have fun. Both of you are young.

Yes I agree with that 100%!!!

Men, especially should not get into a serious relationship until after 25

happilymarried67 · 09-27-2008, 03:26 PM

25. I would almost have to say 30 before you get involved for a serious relationship. I am glad that I was older. I wasn't ready to get married to my first husband who died of cancer. It may sound weird but you have so much growing up and enjoying to do before you get tied down for what is supposed to be the rest of your life. I would just try and enjoy the relationship and not dig in to deep.