How miserable are you really?
I see people talk about how tired and miserable they are of this or that, that their spouse is doing or not doing. They claim they will leave or want to to leave, but yet they do nothing to make that possible.
I understand venting at times. I do not understand the whole going around in circles thing over and over with a spouse, when its apparent things are probably not going to change. I think threatening to leave and then not, is sending the message out to the other spouse about how you're really not that miserable, and really not planning on leaving, but yet will just threaten too leave. If thats the case, then of course your spouse will not make an effort to change, they don't take you seriously, and feel they have nothing to lose, to them you will always be there, just complaining.
So then you have to ask yourself exactly how miserable are you really?
I see people talk about how tired and miserable they are of this or that, that their spouse is doing or not doing. They claim they will leave or want to to leave, but yet they do nothing to make that possible.
I understand venting at times. I do not understand the whole going around in circles thing over and over with a spouse, when its apparent things are probably not going to change. I think threatening to leave and then not, is sending the message out to the other spouse about how you're really not that miserable, and really not planning on leaving, but yet will just threaten too leave. If thats the case, then of course your spouse will not make an effort to change, they don't take you seriously, and feel they have nothing to lose, to them you will always be there, just complaining.
So then you have to ask yourself exactly how miserable are you really?