Re: I asked him to move out.
The more I think about it, the more I think Cynthia is correct. I am pretty sure he has maneuvered himself into this position. he was always very manipulative. We had talked a lot about stuff during the time we were hanging out. A lot. he tried to say he had tried to save me from the pain of finding out about his new woman. If he really didn't want me to find out about her, he would have prevenTed He wouldn't have let me in his house, or he would have put all her stuff up. He gave me mixed signals on purpose. He kept saying I was the one that broke up with him, and I was the one that rejected him. He did all this on purpose, and I gave him the result he wanted. So in his mind he has won. At this point, I would not be surprised if he does play out this new girl, and then try to come back. in his mind, he has succeeded in finding out that I still have feelings for him. So I am Plan B. He can go play around with this new person for a while, and then when he is tired of her, he will try. I am almost positive now. He had even said that we don't know what might happen in the future. well I know what will happen in the future. I Wouldn'ttake him back if he was the last man on Earth.
"Always man needs woman for his friend. He needs her clearer vision, her subtler insight, her softer thought, her winged soul, her pure and tender heart. Always woman needs man to be her friend. She needs the vigor of his purpose, the ardor of his will, his calmer judgment, his braver force of action, his reverence and his devotion." ~Mary C. Adams