Re: I asked him to move out.
I just got back home. He is not here. I had to leave earlier because he was "making" me feel like I was throwing away a perfectly good relationship for silly reasons. (Of course, I know I was allowing him to make me feel that way.)
I got out, got the water changed over into my name (ouch on the deposit!) got my taxes done (got a little more back than I had anticipated, yay,) and bought myself lunch.
The camper (his parents, we were keeping it here) is gone and he is gone. What little belongings he said he was taking are gone. I did tell him he could leave some stuff here since he can't fit it back at his parents house (which is where he is moving because although he works, he can't really afford to live on his own due to back child support.) He said he wouldn't count on them still being here......what would my new man think? REALLY? He was joking, but still. Sigh.....