10-03-2008, 12:16 AM
Join Date: Oct 2008
Location: Dallas, TX
| | When should my husband tell his daughters I'm pregnant?
I'm 26 weeks pregnant w/ our first boy ,
My husband has 3 girls before with prev marriage, (ages 5, 7, and 10) they live in California and we live in Texas,
They still have trouble accepting me, because his ex-wife hates me, and she's always influencing the girls to dislike me , (She was unable to give him a boy and make his girls fear) and makes them think If I have a boy, he won't love them anymore, or visit (she doesn't know I'm pregnant)
My husband is thinking on telling the girls once the baby is born , so he can show him to the girls, and be easier for them to see him there , than knowing I'm expecting,
I believe it's not the right thing to do, since they will think I lied to them or make him not tell them, and hate my baby and me more.
I'm really exited w/ our first baby , but don't like the idea of the girls not knowing until the baby is born .
Should he tell the girls now, or wait till my baby is born?