05-06-2011, 10:17 AM
Join Date: Jan 2010
| | Re: She wants me to get a 2nd job or put in more overtime
Originally Posted by Hicks
She's telling you that financial security is important to her.
Rather than let her dictate to you your working schedule, you should demonstrate to her through words and actions how you are taking care of the family in the financial sense, for both the long and short term.
The other possibility is maybe she wants to stop working? Again, rather than have her dicate how often you work, you should lay out how you want things to work, while making sure her needs for financial securaity are addressed.