Married women who are friends with guys
Lets say your married, and you have aquired a few newfound guy friends.
Whats the etiquette there, so that it doesn't "cross the line".
I'm in a situation where "to me" guys are crossing the line, but in a "harmless" sort of way.. but my wife doesn't "shut them down' as I feel she should. She just sort of plays along, but in such a vague way thats she's not so much leading them on.. but they still attempt to talk to her like they do. Some of the guys are married themselves.. and they'll still make comments to her that to me a married guy shouldn't make to another woman.
chit chat, about the weather, work, hobbies and interests.. are fine.. but whats the cut off? Like, is it ok for a guy to elude to "being with you" in some fantasy world? or constantly telling you your "hot"? or even better asking for naughty photos. I mean, I know its not all guys, but an astounding number just have no respect for her or her marriage.. happily or not. And, why do the females not just say "hey, we are just friends.. I'm married". Instead of jokingly playing along..
wife: how was your trip to <insertplace>?
guy: good, but boring coming back to an empty hotel room.
wife: you couldn't pick anyone up?
guy: ha ha, i didn't see any that I'd want to pick up.
wife: oh lol
guy: how come you didn't volunteer to come?
wife: work lol
guy: I wouldn't have minded.
wife doesn't say anything for a bit..
guy: Did I scare you off?
wife: no, just got busy at work.
see what i mean? "harmless' but the intent is there. I don't talk to other married women like that..
here's another example.. this one is just a perv imo.
wife: sorry i'm slacking
guy: lol do you still have my number?
guy: I'm ready to see that ass.
wife: lol ok.
guy: I want to see it all, but we'll start with that.
wife: lol ok.
and this sort of talk has gone on for say over a month. no pictures have been sent, and I don't think there is any intention in doing so.. so why keep the guy going like that?