Snooring

They should sell the house and each rent/Žbuy a smaller appartment at the same time he should learnto be a a strong man for his future relationship
This woman has no value, she is not a woman to have a relationship with anymore so he should stop feeling sorry for himself.
He should date other women and find the right woman for him after he has mastered being an alpha male

JAG

Yes, everything you say is 100% correct. I felt sorry for myself, wondering what i had done to deserve this. I spent almost 2 weeks in agony and at the lowest i have ever been in my life, but will advice and help from friends i'm back and only moving upward and onwards. I feel independent and free in some way from the old me that was afraid to leave the house without her approval. I'm getting my confidence and independence back. I met with a barrister friend and he has put me in contact with one of the best family law solicitors around... I just need this to let me know my options.... But no matter what i'm out of here,,,in house babysitter doesn't work.. Nothing has changed other than she has a bed to herself. When i'm gone she can do as she pleases..... I just hope she sees the grass is not so green

JAG

We will probably use mediation to sort out all our issues relating to home etc. I spoke to a family law solicitor today just to be sure of what my entitlements are. I bit surprised how tough it will be. It's hard when one party puts so much time, effort and money into creating a family home, a family environment and other assets to benefit the family in the long term, only to see everything stripped from you.
Begining your life over again at 41 yrs old is not fun, especially in a recession on low wage and no real help.....
people say it could be worse at least you have your health, but thats no consolation.