I have been friends with this woman for a little over a year and we have gotten very close. She has mentioned a few times that my husband is good looking and just generally talks about how great he is after a few drinks. I have felt like she was a little flirty with him but then rationalized that I was overreacting.
However, I think she may have pushed my buttons one too many times. My husband was at the gym running on the treadmill with his headphones on and she approached him, stopped until he took his headphones off to "say hi". Then tried to make small talk to which my husband cut her short.
The next week she was at my house having a few glasses of wine and girl talk and when my husband got home from work she started talking to him about something that is irrelevant. Well, I joined in the conversation and she actually told me that they were talking and for me to let him talk! lol. I didn't think too much of it at the time because like I said drinks were flowing. But it really bothered me the next day. She also touched my husband on the arm when she was talking to him that day as well which she has done before and I find disrespectful.
I have no reason to worry as my husband does not find her attractive in the least and he has been faithful and is a very good husband. I just feel disrespected and amused that she actually thinks she has a chance with him (if that is the case).
So my question is, am I over reacting? At this point I have cut her off and ignored her but don't feel the need to say anything as we have to be civil and around each other in the future for professional reasons.
However, I think she may have pushed my buttons one too many times. My husband was at the gym running on the treadmill with his headphones on and she approached him, stopped until he took his headphones off to "say hi". Then tried to make small talk to which my husband cut her short.
The next week she was at my house having a few glasses of wine and girl talk and when my husband got home from work she started talking to him about something that is irrelevant. Well, I joined in the conversation and she actually told me that they were talking and for me to let him talk! lol. I didn't think too much of it at the time because like I said drinks were flowing. But it really bothered me the next day. She also touched my husband on the arm when she was talking to him that day as well which she has done before and I find disrespectful.
I have no reason to worry as my husband does not find her attractive in the least and he has been faithful and is a very good husband. I just feel disrespected and amused that she actually thinks she has a chance with him (if that is the case).
So my question is, am I over reacting? At this point I have cut her off and ignored her but don't feel the need to say anything as we have to be civil and around each other in the future for professional reasons.