I thought it was meant to be. It all felt right. The marriage, the kids that came along, us, our conversation and discussion like a married couple is supposed to, the respect, the support, it all felt perfect and right for the last 19 years but now, all of a sudden, over the course of the past year, its all different. Everything that I thought I knew and felt was right about my marriage to my wife, well, is all different now.
All of the "nicety's" so to say from her have stopped. All of the "hey baby cakes" and such are gone. When I would call her on the phone or send her a text she would always answer "hey babe" but now its just "hey" or "hello". In the mornings, we would always say good morning and give each other a hug and a kiss like it had meaning and every night when we went to bed we would always give each other a kiss and say "love you". But now, in the mornings all she says is "morning".
What's funny is that I continued to act the same way that I was with my "hey honey-bunny" or when we would pass in the house I would pat her on the butt or just walk up behind her and give her a hug from behind and kiss her on the head or just give her a hug and a kiss for no reason and say "love you" but now I have pretty much quit all of that simply because she acts like she just doesn't care about any of that any more. Basically, what I saw or came to understand what was "us" for all of these years is not us now and every time I try to talk to her about, she gets annoyed.
I know people and relationships change but I am having a very hard time understanding all of this. Is it just me?
PHE
All of the "nicety's" so to say from her have stopped. All of the "hey baby cakes" and such are gone. When I would call her on the phone or send her a text she would always answer "hey babe" but now its just "hey" or "hello". In the mornings, we would always say good morning and give each other a hug and a kiss like it had meaning and every night when we went to bed we would always give each other a kiss and say "love you". But now, in the mornings all she says is "morning".
What's funny is that I continued to act the same way that I was with my "hey honey-bunny" or when we would pass in the house I would pat her on the butt or just walk up behind her and give her a hug from behind and kiss her on the head or just give her a hug and a kiss for no reason and say "love you" but now I have pretty much quit all of that simply because she acts like she just doesn't care about any of that any more. Basically, what I saw or came to understand what was "us" for all of these years is not us now and every time I try to talk to her about, she gets annoyed.
I know people and relationships change but I am having a very hard time understanding all of this. Is it just me?
PHE