My wife and I have been married 2 years.
2nd marriage for me, 1st for her.
We are both in our 40's, no kids involved.
Last couple of months have been not very good.
My wife has lost her trust in me.
I am at 100 % at fault in causing this.
No infidelity involved. Although she sees my lying to her as the same.
At the end of last year we went to a counselor regarding different issues. And that helped.
We went last month regarding what is going on now.
She just doesn't know if she can forgive me. If she will be able to feel the way she used to about me.
She says she feels terribly anxious around me, around our house.
I have asked for forgiveness, and told her I wasn't trying to hurt her in any way. I am just sick about the way she feels about us.
I have been working very hard on myself, reading books, going to the counselor.
Our marriage before was very good, we worked well together and were each others best friend.
And now I lost her trust, and it seems her.
I have investigated the marriage bootcamps, it seems like that would be a great thing for us.
If we could work together on this, we could get thru it.
One moment she says yes to the bootcamp, the next she is anxious to think about going, and wants no part.
I just bought the book "How One Of You Can Bring The Two Of You Together" by Susan Page.
I am currently reading it and trying to work on things my own.
I just wish there was someway for us both to work on this.
She is depressed, she doesn't trust me, she is anxious around me she says.
Last week we went to dinner and a good time.
Now she is staying at a friends house this week.
I know this takes time to build trust back.
I am afraid her answer is divorce.
I would like for us to give it our best shot.
Advice requested..............
Thanks RB
2nd marriage for me, 1st for her.
We are both in our 40's, no kids involved.
Last couple of months have been not very good.
My wife has lost her trust in me.
I am at 100 % at fault in causing this.
No infidelity involved. Although she sees my lying to her as the same.
At the end of last year we went to a counselor regarding different issues. And that helped.
We went last month regarding what is going on now.
She just doesn't know if she can forgive me. If she will be able to feel the way she used to about me.
She says she feels terribly anxious around me, around our house.
I have asked for forgiveness, and told her I wasn't trying to hurt her in any way. I am just sick about the way she feels about us.
I have been working very hard on myself, reading books, going to the counselor.
Our marriage before was very good, we worked well together and were each others best friend.
And now I lost her trust, and it seems her.
I have investigated the marriage bootcamps, it seems like that would be a great thing for us.
If we could work together on this, we could get thru it.
One moment she says yes to the bootcamp, the next she is anxious to think about going, and wants no part.
I just bought the book "How One Of You Can Bring The Two Of You Together" by Susan Page.
I am currently reading it and trying to work on things my own.
I just wish there was someway for us both to work on this.
She is depressed, she doesn't trust me, she is anxious around me she says.
Last week we went to dinner and a good time.
Now she is staying at a friends house this week.
I know this takes time to build trust back.
I am afraid her answer is divorce.
I would like for us to give it our best shot.
Advice requested..............
Thanks RB