Dear all,
I am new to this forum. I have had such a bad day and wanted to speak to someone but I am so embarrassed no friends or family is possible.
My husband takes topless pictures of me or with new underwear, we have always done it and I am not shy in front of the camera.
However, the last few days he has been acting strange. We had some business on email to sort out so this morning I accessed his email account. I went into his deleted folder and found he has sent some of the topless pictures to a mutual acquaintance of ours, a young man who works in the local bar, I wouldn't call him a friend but certainly we both know him.
I woke my husband up and confronted him on it straight away, I know I shouldn't have been snooping in his email but I just knew something was up. He didn't deny it at all.
Since getting home he is refusing to speak to me. I am dumbstruck as I am not in the wrong and am being punished!? He is making typical comments for him like oh you are so perfect aren't you, never can do any wrong. In 10 years together he has never taken responsibility for any argument etc but this time he has been caught red handed and he doesn't like it.
Added to this, a friend was supposed to meet him today at a certain time and place as she was buying a camera from us. She didn't turn up. She called my husband he missed the call but didn't think to call her back. 8 hours later she has turned up at our house. She didn't really mention or apologize for being late and when she went he started complaining that she hadn't given a reason. I said to him why didn't you say something and he was like oh well because you would tell me off for being rude etc. Literally he is blaming me for everything and I really feel this isn't fair.
I guess I would gratefully receive some support, opinions on this.
I am new to this forum. I have had such a bad day and wanted to speak to someone but I am so embarrassed no friends or family is possible.
My husband takes topless pictures of me or with new underwear, we have always done it and I am not shy in front of the camera.
However, the last few days he has been acting strange. We had some business on email to sort out so this morning I accessed his email account. I went into his deleted folder and found he has sent some of the topless pictures to a mutual acquaintance of ours, a young man who works in the local bar, I wouldn't call him a friend but certainly we both know him.
I woke my husband up and confronted him on it straight away, I know I shouldn't have been snooping in his email but I just knew something was up. He didn't deny it at all.
Since getting home he is refusing to speak to me. I am dumbstruck as I am not in the wrong and am being punished!? He is making typical comments for him like oh you are so perfect aren't you, never can do any wrong. In 10 years together he has never taken responsibility for any argument etc but this time he has been caught red handed and he doesn't like it.
Added to this, a friend was supposed to meet him today at a certain time and place as she was buying a camera from us. She didn't turn up. She called my husband he missed the call but didn't think to call her back. 8 hours later she has turned up at our house. She didn't really mention or apologize for being late and when she went he started complaining that she hadn't given a reason. I said to him why didn't you say something and he was like oh well because you would tell me off for being rude etc. Literally he is blaming me for everything and I really feel this isn't fair.
I guess I would gratefully receive some support, opinions on this.