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Problems with husband

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#1 ·
Dear all,

I am new to this forum. I have had such a bad day and wanted to speak to someone but I am so embarrassed no friends or family is possible.

My husband takes topless pictures of me or with new underwear, we have always done it and I am not shy in front of the camera.

However, the last few days he has been acting strange. We had some business on email to sort out so this morning I accessed his email account. I went into his deleted folder and found he has sent some of the topless pictures to a mutual acquaintance of ours, a young man who works in the local bar, I wouldn't call him a friend but certainly we both know him.

I woke my husband up and confronted him on it straight away, I know I shouldn't have been snooping in his email but I just knew something was up. He didn't deny it at all.

Since getting home he is refusing to speak to me. I am dumbstruck as I am not in the wrong and am being punished!? He is making typical comments for him like oh you are so perfect aren't you, never can do any wrong. In 10 years together he has never taken responsibility for any argument etc but this time he has been caught red handed and he doesn't like it.

Added to this, a friend was supposed to meet him today at a certain time and place as she was buying a camera from us. She didn't turn up. She called my husband he missed the call but didn't think to call her back. 8 hours later she has turned up at our house. She didn't really mention or apologize for being late and when she went he started complaining that she hadn't given a reason. I said to him why didn't you say something and he was like oh well because you would tell me off for being rude etc. Literally he is blaming me for everything and I really feel this isn't fair.

I guess I would gratefully receive some support, opinions on this.
 
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#3 ·
I agree with you he is a random person, and I will also feel so embarrassed going in there now knowing he has seen them. I didn't get a chance to save the email I was going to work and he has made sure he has changed his password straight away. Really feel so angry that I'm being treated like the bad guy here. I said to him are you going to ignore me all night and he replied well I'm trying to get over the 6am wake up call which was a nightmare. I reminded him it was a nightmare for me.........but his reply was yeah yeah .."
 
#4 ·
This is called blame shifting. He did wrong, he knows it, can't excuse it, so might as well try and make you feel bad also.

Cheaters do this all the time. You catch them in the act, by hacking email or phone and then guess what..."how dare you snoop through my personal stuff"..... Kinda silly isn't it

Don't let him make you feel bad. Your the wronged party here and if he won't accept that and apologize you may need to think about leaving
 
#5 ·
Your H has no respect for you. I couldn't forgive someone who sent topless pictures of his wife to anyone. WTF? Who does that? Assh*les, that's who.

That he is upset with YOU is ridiculous.

Why do you stay married to a man who won't take any responsibility for his behavior and hasn't in 10 years? You would be better off on your own than with someone who treats you like this.
 
#6 ·
If you can hold your head up and not feel embarrassed, go find this man at the bar and ask him to please delete the photos that your husband sent them without your knowledge. Then give him some photos of your idiot husband just being himself and ask him to be sure and share them with all his friends if your husband keeps sending nude photos of you via email.

For example:

Hey Bob, Check out this new photo of my wife naked:



Not funny George, Your wife says you are a not right for sending private photos of her:

(copy to Bill, Ted, & Stanly)

PHOTO OF GEORGE BEING AN IDIOT!





Generally speaking other men will be a nice and help you deal with this, but you'll have to tell them what happened and get them to tell your husband to stop!

Hope that helps!

Badsanta
 
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