Re: Can't have kids and depressed
This is a very deep post and hits close to heart. Since puberty, I've had abdominal pain and it has gotten worse over the years. this year it was discovered on my right side that i have ovarian cysts that keep rupturing. when i first heard about that i did cry, too. this meant that eventually, it could lead to other things and not being able to have babies, and even taking out my right ovary if things get any worse. the pain on my left side finally stopped, wasn't major anyhow. but i, too, was put on birth control/hormonal treatment in order for there to be a balance.
also, i dont know if you're religious, but your case does remind me of sarah. the woman who could not have babies, asked her husband to have a surrogate (in those days sex w. the slave maiden-his sperm, her eggs), then the wife grew jealous, and God made her weight longer. She finally had a baby of her own after some time. Sometimes, you just never know.